What the recession makes very, very clear, if you
can see it
by John Ortberg
We
posted a position for our church on Craigslist recently. We got 140
applications.
The
Dow Jones is down. NASDAQ is down. Housing values are down.
Venture
capital is down. Consumer confidence is down. Employment is down. Auto industry
is down. Commercial real estate is down. Foreign markets are down.
Is
anything going up?
Some
things are. The opportunity to serve people in need is going up. The
opportunity to trust God when trusting isn't easy is going up. The opportunity
to build a faith that will last when the storms of life hit it is going up. The
opportunity to help our churches become communities where people actually we
get real with each other and love and support each other is going up.
We
know this is true because certain truths remain unchanged:
God
remains sovereign. The blood of Jesus is still more powerful than the stain of
sin. The Holy Spirit still guides confused church leaders. The Bible is still
the word of God. The tomb is still empty. Prayers still get answered. Love
still beats bigotry. Hope still trumps despair. The church is still marching.
The Kingdom is still alive and well, and does not need to be bailed out by a
stimulus package.
The
church has always faced hardship and crisis. Maybe—because our lives are often
so easy—we actually are more frightened of hardship than Christians at any time
over the past few thousand years.
Psychologist
Jonathon Haidt had hypothetical exercise: Imagine that you have a child, and
for five minutes you're given a script of what will be that child's life. You
get an eraser. You can edit it. You can take out whatever you want.
You
read that your child will have a learning disability in grade school. Reading,
which comes easily for some kids, will be laborious for yours.
In
high school, your kid will make a great circle of friends; then one of them
will die of cancer.
After
high school this child will actually get into the college they wanted to
attend. While there, there will be a car crash, and your child will lose a leg
and go through a difficult depression.
A
few years later, your child will get a great job. Then lose that job in an
economic downturn.
Your
child will get married, but then go through the grief of separation.
You
get this script for your child's life and have five minutes to edit it.
What
would you erase?
Wouldn't
you want to take out all the stuff that would cause them pain?
I am
part of a generation of adults called "helicoptor parents," because
we're constantly trying to swoop into our kid's educational life, relational
life, sports life, etc. to make sure no one is mistreating them, no one is
disappointing them. We want them to just experience one unobstructed success
after another.
One
Halloween a mom came to our door to trick or treat. Why didn't she send in her
kid? Well, the weather's a little bad, she said; she was driving so he didn't
have to walk in the mist.
But
why not send him to the door? He had fallen asleep in the car, she said, so she
didn't want him to have to wake up.
I
felt like saying, "Why don't you eat all his candy and get his stomach
ache for him, too—then he can be completely protected!"
If
you could wave a wand, if you could erase every failure, setback, suffering and
pain—are you sure it would be a good idea? Would it cause your child to grow up
to be a better, stronger, more generous person? Is it possible that in some way
people actually need adversity, setbacks, maybe even something like trauma to
reach the fullest level of development and growth?
"Consider
it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds,
because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let
perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not
lacking in anything" (James 1:1-2).
Sometimes
I can get caught up in the challenges of church life. We face financial needs
that are always shifting. Leadership requirements keep going up. Emails can be
happy; but sometimes cranky people write them. And send them to me. My own
motives get messed up. I get anxious about our success, then feel guilty when I
think about how I want to be running on better fuel.
So
it helps me, in times like these, to live in the words of Paul. His adjectives
are particularly striking, since he likely wrote these words in chains, under
oppression, awaiting execution: "For our light and momentary troubles are
achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all" (2 Cor.
4:17).
Things are definitely looking up.
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