Experience

Experience is the matrix in which change is forged. Usually the realization that we have a need to change begins with an experience. The experiences we are especially interested in here are those that are symptoms of deeper needs; things that reveal wrong attitudes, fears, destructive behaviours, and so on.
The appropriate response to an insight gained through experience is to turn to the Scriptures ... God’s Word illuminates. It penetrates our clouds of self-deception and shows things as they really are. It takes courage to step into the light in this way. To be confronted with the truth about ourselves can be like getting caught with no clothes on. But we must see things as they are before we can do what needs to be done.
[To say yes to what the Scriptures say about us] takes a certain attitude on our part. It is humility ... Prayer and worship are the language of humility.

- Jim Peterson in "Lifestyle Discipleship"